Gratitude in the Rubble

Gratitude in the Rubble

Gratitude in the RubbleKristen Neighbarger
Published on: 30/10/2026

Finding gratitude after church hurt doesn’t mean ignoring the pain. Make room for anger, grief, and joy while noticing one good thing in the rubble.

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When the Apology Never Comes

When the Apology Never Comes

When the Apology Never ComesKristen Neighbarger
Published on: 23/10/2026

When those who caused church hurt move on without apologizing, how do we reconcile grace with accountability and begin rebuilding without their repentance?

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Why Is It So Hard to Admit We’re Wrong?

Why Is It So Hard to Admit We’re Wrong?

Why Is It So Hard to Admit We’re Wrong?Kristen Neighbarger
Published on: 15/10/2026

Why is admitting we're wrong so difficult? Explore how performance-based Christianity fuels perfectionism, protects appearances, and makes confession feel dangerous.

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When the Emphasis is on the Wrong Syllable

When the Emphasis is on the Wrong Syllable

When the Emphasis is on the Wrong SyllableKristen Neighbarger
Published on: 07/10/2026

When church rules, theology, and technicalities overshadow people, we miss what Jesus emphasized: justice, mercy, faithfulness, and the fruit we produce.

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