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Embracing the Discipline of Your Calling

June 15, 20266 min read

To my fellow female faith-based authors: the world needs your words today more than they ever have before.

Most days, though, it doesn’t feel that way.

Most days, if you’re anything like me, you open your phone to a steady stream of discouraging news, divisive headlines, and reminders of everything that feels broken. If I’m being honest, the heaviness of the world sits on my shoulders more often than I’d like to admit.

And yet, that’s precisely why our words matter.

I’ve been thinking a lot about what this means for us as authors, especially those of us who are female and embracing a call to ministry through our words, presence, and platforms. We are met with so many obstacles:

  • Juggling family, work, and the writing life

  • Imposter syndrome

  • Those who wish to silence us

  • Finding readers

  • Embracing our calling

  • Using our voice

While this list certainly isn’t exhaustive, these are challenges many of us encounter regularly.

So today, I want to encourage you and equip you to embrace the discipline of your calling.

In a time when portions of Paul’s letters to Timothy are regularly pulled from their context and used as weapons against women, it’s easy to forget that Timothy also received instructions that apply beautifully to all of us.

Instructions about faithfulness.

Instructions about work.

Instructions about stewardship.

Instructions that every author should remember each time she sits down to write:

“Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth.”
— 2 Timothy 2:15

So much of this advice is applicable to us as we embrace and steward our own call to ministry. Paul offers Timothy three challenges here, and I believe we can benefit from them as well.


Present Yourself to God as One Approved

Before Paul tells Timothy about the work he will be doing, he urges him to focus on God first–on who his work is for.

We are no different. We also have to remember who our work is for before we begin.

As authors, it’s easy to seek approval from all sorts of external sources: readers, reviews, publishers, algorithms, launch team members, social media followers, or even fellow authors. Just as Paul encourages Timothy to direct his attention first to God, our first responsibility should not be to impress people but to faithfully present ourselves before Him.

This doesn’t mean we stop improving our craft. It doesn’t mean we stop caring about excellence. What it does mean is that our worth is not determined by the outcome of our efforts.

A book can sell thousands of copies, but it’s more likely to sell a handful.

A post can go viral, but it’s more likely to disappear into the abyss that is the internet.

Neither outcome changes who we are before God.

The question is not, “Did everyone approve of my work?”

The question is, “Did I faithfully offer it to God?”

Be a Worker Who Does Not Need to Be Ashamed

Paul’s message to Timothy here is twofold. First, he needs to be a worker. Second, he needs to approach his work without shame.

Paul isn’t telling Timothy to be a spectator, dreamer, or consumer. He’s telling him to unashamedly do the work God has called him to do.

Unashamedly.

And to work unashamedly, we have to:

  • Show up.

  • Learn.

  • Revise.

  • Practice.

  • Keep going even when the excitement has worn off.

For many women, this may be the hardest part.

Not the writing.

Not the learning.

Not even the publishing.

The hardest part is refusing to apologize for taking up space.

Refusing to shrink back when God has called us forward.

Refusing to treat our calling as less important, less valuable, or less worthy simply because someone else is uncomfortable with it.

There is daily discipline in this calling.

Writing the book is only the beginning. Authors today are also students, marketers, communicators, and community builders. We learn new skills, adapt to changing platforms, and continue showing up long after the first draft is finished.

None of this is separate from the calling.

It is part of it.

Every draft, every revision, every blog post, every podcast episode, every video edit, and every conversation with a reader is part of becoming the author God has called us to be.

There is dignity in this work.

It is worthy work.

And it is work we should embrace without shame.


Correctly Handle the Word of Truth

Paul ends his advice to Timothy with the importance of stewardship.

Whether you’re writing devotionals, Bible studies, memoirs, articles, fiction, narrative nonfiction, or even simple social media content, we have to remember that our words carry weight.

As faith-based authors, we aren’t here simply to create content.

We are called to handle truth and to handle it carefully.

That means studying before teaching.

It means researching before speaking.

It most definitely requires understanding context before quoting Scripture or inserting a quote.

We are tasked with resisting the temptation to say something catchy or cliché at the expense of saying something true.

The goal is not to be persuasive.

The goal is to be faithful.

Our readers trust us with their time, attention, and often their hearts. God has entrusted us with a ministry and a message. Those are responsibilities worth taking seriously.

Paul’s words to Timothy are so applicable to us as authors because they remind us that faithful authorship is about more than publishing books.

It begins by remembering whose approval we seek.

It continues through the daily discipline of the work.

And it culminates in handling truth with care and integrity.

We present ourselves to God.

We do the work.

We steward the message.

Faithful Authorship

The world does not need more noise.

It needs more truth.

It needs more wisdom.

It needs more women who are willing to faithfully steward the stories, insights, experiences, and truths God has entrusted to them.

So write the book.

Publish the article.

Record the podcast.

Send the newsletter.

Keep showing up.

The world needs your words, and God can do far more with your faithfulness than you can imagine.


Reflection Questions

  1. What part of the work have I been avoiding? Is there an area where God is inviting me to show up with greater discipline, consistency, or courage?

  2. What would it look like for me to embrace my calling without shame? Where have I been shrinking back, apologizing for my voice, or waiting for permission God has already given me?

  3. What is one step I can take this week to faithfully present my work to God? Not perfectly. Not fearlessly. Just faithfully.


I write in two spaces. A Seat at the Table is where I explore faith, healing, and making room for honesty after it’s been made complicated. Ink & Intention is for writers who want to show up with clarity, discernment, and integrity—especially online.

I’m also the author of Breathing Again and several guided journals, and I work with writers who want thoughtful, grounded support as they find their voice and shape what comes next.

If you’re a writer looking for thoughtful encouragement, practical strategy, and honest conversations about the writing life, you’re also welcome to join us inside The Visible Author Facebook Community.

If something here resonated, you’re welcome to explore more at your own pace. You can find everything in one place at KristenNeighbarger.com.

Kristen Neighbarger

Kristen Neighbarger

Kristen Neighbarger is a writer, speaker, and faith coach who helps spiritually weary women breathe again. After years of performing, people-pleasing, and pretending she was fine, Kristen found herself unraveling—and slowly rebuilding a faith that could hold both her questions and her hope. Through honest storytelling and practical tools, she creates space for others to wrestle with what they’ve been taught, name what they actually believe, and move forward with gentleness and intention. Whether you’re wandering, wondering, or just worn out, Kristen’s words will remind you: you’re not too much, too late, or too far gone. She’s the author of Breathing Again and the creator of The Soul Seat—a reflection guide for those learning to live, grieve, and believe with honesty. Writing weekly on her blog and social media channels, Kristen helps survivors of church hurt, religious trauma, and spiritual abuse heal and find peace in their faith again. She balances deep dives into scripture with narratives from her own life and church experiences, always connecting with her reader and making faith, the bible, and her teaching relatable and applicable to today’s world.

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